You are a slave to something. You are a slave to what you devote yourself to. Whatever God wants you to give up and you will not, is your master. Don’t be slave to sin. God wants so much more for you. God wants you to be free of that master, the one that wants you to be “self-serving.” Serving yourself, or any sin will bring misery.

Serve God and others.

What you dream about having is your master. The lie children tell each other today is that if their parents demand things from them, or establish boundaries for them, they don’t really love them. This is the same lie the enemy of our souls tells us. If God doesn’t grant you whatever you want, God doesn’t really love you. Parents mostly want to teach and save their children from injury. God wants to save you from heartache. As a child doesn’t always know when to stop eating candy, a spiritual child doesn’t know when to stop sinning.