Please always return to the Word of God. With social media and all the books out there, you can find someone advocating for every possible position about God. Somewhere, someone will advocate for anything and everything. Always return to the Word of God for confirmation. Many things sound good and are attractive to us. The lies of the enemy are well hidden in half-truths our itching ears want to hear. Much of it takes responsibility away from us, so that sounds great! But the Word of God will and does challenge everyone. It’s not all easy. But we need to accept God where He is at. This requires us to get comfortable with the Bible. Learn about it, study it and understand it. If you lack wisdom, ask God, who gives freely. Read and pray to understand the Word. You can do this, seek and you will find, it’s a promise from God. But you must accept what He says, His will not yours.