To indulge or not to indulge? We often feel like it’s easier to indulge folks in their personal truth, but is it loving? If you were teaching a child about fire, should you indulge their desire to experience fire, or admonish them against it? Which is more loving? The answer is very obvious, we should admonish them to be careful, and we could slowly control their experience by letting them feel the heat carefully. And showing them that fire can be very dangerous. We want them to learn the truth about fire and respect the danger. Often telling folks the truth causes conflict. Can we love them enough to tell them the truth about things? The culture asks us to indulge people, even young people about things with much greater lifelong consequences than getting burned by fire. Do we care enough about others to offer truth in love. Or should we follow the cultural example and indulge them all the way to their own harm?